For many families, the holiday season is centred around home, and supporting loved ones in aged care can bring mixed emotions at this time of year. It’s a time of shared meals, familiar traditions and memories built over decades. When a loved one is living in aged care, however, the holidays can feel different, and that change can bring a mix of emotions.
Feelings of guilt, sadness or uncertainty are common, especially for families experiencing this transition for the first time. It’s important to remember that these feelings are completely normal. What matters most is understanding that “home” isn’t defined by a building, but by care, comfort, connection and belonging.
At Glenvale Villas, the holiday season is approached with sensitivity and care, recognising how meaningful this time of year is for residents and their families.
Why the Holidays Can Feel Emotional
The festive season often highlights change. For older people, it can stir memories of past celebrations, loved ones who are no longer present, or traditions that have evolved. For families, it can be confronting to realise that celebrations may now look different.
What’s important to understand is that aged care communities are experienced in supporting residents through these moments. Staff are attentive to emotional wellbeing, familiar routines are maintained, and festive activities are planned to ensure residents feel included rather than isolated.
Staying Connected During the Festive Period
Even when circumstances change, connection remains at the heart of the holidays. Visiting when possible, sharing a meal, or simply spending quiet time together can be deeply meaningful. For families who can’t visit as often, regular phone calls, video chats or written cards can provide reassurance and comfort.
It’s not about recreating past holidays perfectly, it’s about creating moments that feel genuine and supportive now.
Reassurance for Families
One of the biggest concerns families have during the holidays is whether care standards remain consistent. The answer is yes. Aged care communities continue to operate with the same level of professionalism, attention and compassion throughout the festive season.
Residents are supported with their daily needs, medical care and emotional wellbeing, while also being given opportunities to take part in celebrations in a way that suits them personally.
Redefining “Home” at the Holidays
Home doesn’t disappear when someone moves into aged care, it changes. For many residents, aged care becomes a place of safety, familiarity and community. When families embrace this shift and focus on shared experiences rather than expectations, the holiday season can still be meaningful and comforting for everyone involved.